People often wonder how my husband and I ever got together. How we ever lasted over 35 years. Sometimes, it’s a mystery to me as well, but I’m always thankful. He is a man who defies description, but describes himself as a “hippie, red-neck philosopher.” He would be the first to admit that he has some rough edges, but he is a man to admire–someone who works hard at being his best self. He makes me a better person, too. He turned 60 recently and I wrote this poem for him.
Something you should know
(After Clint Smith)
is that I find your hands beautiful.
I know you’ll laugh when you read this,
hold up your knobby hands,
rippled with callouses and scars
of unknown origins,
thick-fingered with nails bitten
into deformity
These hands? you’ll ask.
Yes, those hands,
your hands
I find them beautiful.
Achingly so.
How they cradled our children
How they dance across my skin
How I know they will be there
when I reach out with mine.
And how those quick-bitten nails
record the unceasing effort,
the struggle you put
into living your best life
every single day.
Heroism at its most fundamental.
Beautiful.
©Molly Hogan
This week’s Poetry Friday Roundup is hosted by Tabatha at her blog, The Opposite of Indifference.

