SOLC Day 19: A Bad Case of the “Can’t Help Its”

March 2026 SOLC–Day 19
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I do NOT feel like writing. In fact, I feel a little bit like I want to stomp my feet on the ground and yell, “No! No! No!” Okay, maybe a lot bit. Really, I just 100% do not want to write. I’ve already tried to start at least three different slices. Write. Delete. Write. Delete. Write. Delete. I have plenty of ideas, but no interest in pursuing any of them right now. Or maybe I just don’t have the energy.

Okay, I say to myself, giving in, well then what do you want to do?

Honestly? I don’t even know. Maybe go to bed. But it’s 6:30, so that’s a bit extreme. Maybe read. But I just finished a book and even though I have two on deck, I don’t have the motivation to dig into something new.

I can’t get out of my own way tonight.

When my kids used to be all grumpy and out of sorts and there was no pleasing them, we used to say they had a bad case of the “can’t help its.” I’m pretty sure that describes me tonight as well. Thinking about this reminds me that we also used to say, “If they’re crabby, put them in water.”

Maybe I’ll take a bath.

6 thoughts on “SOLC Day 19: A Bad Case of the “Can’t Help Its”

  1. Alice Tabor-Nine's avatar Alice Tabor-Nine says:

    An astute observation: “I can’t get out of my own way tonight.” I think it’s so much better than saying, “I’ve got writing block.”

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  2. Debbie Lynn's avatar Debbie Lynn says:

    A bath sounds like the perfect way to calm the ‘can’t help its.’ 🙂 And just writing how you felt gave you a story. 🙂

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  3. Glenda Funk's avatar Glenda Funk says:

    I totally understand. But you did write, and I love the “can’t help it’s.” That’s clever. And a good scream might help.

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  4. As I wisely learned when teaching middle schoolers in Kittery, “Everyone needs a day off and an off day.” We feel your pain!

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  5. hsatlas's avatar hsatlas says:

    I so can relate! This was me today. I didn’t want to write, I had nothing to say, and I was done. Taking a walk seemed to change the mood. Maybe the bath will do the trick.

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  6. kd0602's avatar kd0602 says:

    “If they’re crabby, put them in water.” I’m going to remember that for myself (probably why I end up with my feet in the ocean most days after work!). Hope the bath helped!

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